Our weekly column from Ms. Pamela. This week she writes about happiness …
Hi L’BAE Nation you Beautiful Blessed People of God!!! I Pray that You All are as happy as Life can be! I Am! You may be wondering why, as my answer would be “no specific reason other than the fact that I am alive and breathing!” With this mindset I know that I can erase all of yesterday’s mistakes and live today as it is a fresh new beginning. I understand that there is nothing that is going to happen to me that my God and I cannot handle together. This is not a Sunday sermon so do not stray and lose your focus. My point is that your happiness is designed and laid out by you. Yes that is correct! No man has the ability to change your feelings about anything unless you allow them. So I ask you are you happy? If so does it show? Do your feelings of joy and aspiration glow from within captivating others attention by their presence? Maybe you feel as though you are not happy but you would like to be. Here are a few tips to help you bring out your happiness:
A List of Your Desires and a Positive Mindset!
• Write a list of things that would really make you happy to the point where you cannot contain your joy as the smile on your face gives everyone a warning that happiness is about to loom the room.
• Attain a calendar in order to write a date in which you plan to accomplish one goal or desired thing off of your list. This small task will bring a great sense of accomplishment and happiness will arise.
• Change your vocabulary with the use of positive words and phrases only. This also requires what you allow to enter into your ears…no listening to negative commentary!
When You Look Good, You Feel Good
I know that you have heard this saying before and I believe that it is absolutely true. When you feel confident in the way that you look, it gives you a sense of self-worth and power that you can handle anything that life throws your way. You exude happiness and joy as you creatively pick your style of fashion from your wardrobe, accessories, hair style and cosmetics for the day. You are radiant and will send a message to others that you feel great! What if you don’t feel great or exude happiness on a daily basis? This is okay as we all have our days when we want to escape from the worlds’ chaos. This is a normal feeling to have and it is up to us how long we allow this feeling to linger. So Don’t! Shake off those negative feelings and replace them with positive thoughts! Yes stimulate your mind …What’s a positive mind stimulus?
• Music
• Entertainment
• Movies
• Baking
• Dancing
• Art (Painting)
These are just a few ideas to promote a positive mindset in order to escape to a place of happiness! Don’t you want to be Happy! YES YOU DO! So let’s go, let your Happiness Flow through you and this way you can touch the lives of others by sending happiness their way! Awesomeness! L’BAE ALL DAY… Every Day! I’m Pamela the Inspirationalist Make it a L’BAE Day!
